A King seeks a Queen

We are all queens and I do not prefer to call us anything outside of that,. We should be honored and respected but too many times I hear girls complain about how they desperately want a man to how they can’t keep one. They get frustrated , question and wonder if the man she was with even respected her or wanted to commit to her. A lot of times they hit the nail on the head with those types of question, the main subject being , its YOU. Here is the thing, men want to be with a woman and not a little girl. Sadly enough there are some women who feel that just because they are a woman they should get something for of nothing. I call this the “silver platter” complex. Men who are looking to settle down and commit look for a woman who is about her business and is someone with moral standards and carries herself with class. Yea, Luda maybe right in saying, “ I wanna lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed” but more so; men will always look to WIFE a Lady a QUEEN.

I ,by all means don’t claim to be an expert on this subject, I can only speak on what I know. So here are a couple of points I believe men look for in potential “ Queens”

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A Queen respects her castle!

Once in a relationship a woman should know that not everyone needs to know every intricate detail. This goes for friends. You don’t need to divulge all the juicy sex stories or any other intimate details between you and your man. Respect the walls of the relationship and again certain things are for the two of you to share, not the world.


A Queen walks beside her man, never behind or in front:

As much as I am down for being a strong independent woman myself , we need to let a man be a MAN. Now ladies, I’m not saying regress back to the 1950’s but just calm down sometimes. To be in a relationship you should both be able to present how you are EQUAL not how much more you can do than the other.


A Queen thinks before she speaks:

A lot of times we , women, let our emotions get the best of us. When we get in a certain “ mood” we should use this time to reflect. With any situation or dispute we have to know how to pick our battles. Sometimes that will mean holding our tongue or going all the way in on someone’s ass, lol.


A Queen Communicates:

There are some women out there who like to play the silent treatment, guess what I am thinking, game. A grown woman quickly will realize that games are for children and if something needs to be addressed to her man, feeling, thought or concern she WILL NOT hesitate to say what is on her mind.


A Queen respects herself & remains humble:

If you don’t respect yourself, how’d expect others to? Right? This is all in the way we carry ourselves , how we speak, how we react to certain situations. Overreacting to me just shows immaturity and A QUEEN is not immature. And like all people ,a real woman learns from her mistakes from life remembering where she use to be. Never does she think she is perfect or better. A grown woman knows that only God is perfect.


So ,those are some of the basics on what I believe a man is looking for in a woman to be with. Beside that, ALL woman should still have some characteristics like that with out the end game having to be getting with a man. It all starts with self first. As well, men should have the same. We are all worthy of the title KING or QUEEN, Boyfriend or Girlfriend even HUSBAND and WIFE , but first we have to get ourselves straight first to bear the titles. Don’t just say it and it not be true.

What do you think are some characteristics that create a strong bond with self and that will help relationships last?

Oh and if anyone asked or questioned.. I AM A QUEEN #BOOM HA HA

3 Comments on “A King seeks a Queen”

  1. leopride says:

    Definitely an excellent read. I guess my queen, or queens, will come to me one day. LOL!!!

  2. Brit says:

    Great post! Men and women should read this!

  3. Thank you for sharing this with us. More women need to realize their worth and try to present themselves in a more positive fashion. You give great characteristics of what a true woman should be. Definitely a great post!

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